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I had always wished for a very fair complexioned, smart and homely girl and due to this, I turned down many marriage proposals. When I saw my wife for the first time, she looked OK and I don't know why my family and I agreed to the proposal. My wife was looking fine on our engagement day but after the marriage, she has started looking very unattractive, dull and ugly. She didn't look newly married when we went for our honeymoon, as there was no glow on her face. The whole honeymoon, we just fought as I only commented on her bad body and the harassment she has caused to me. Till today, we are fighting on the same things.

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I had always wished for a very fair complexioned, smart and homely girl and due to this, I turned down many marriage proposals. When I saw my wife for the first time, she looked OK and I don't know why my family and I agreed to the proposal. My wife was looking fine on our engagement day but after the marriage, she has started looking very unattractive, dull and ugly.

She didn't look newly married when we went for our honeymoon, as there was no glow on her face. The whole honeymoon, we just fought as I only commented on her bad body and the harassment she has caused to me. Till today, we are fighting on the same things. Now, she fights equally with me. I have developed an inferiority complex and whenever I am with her, I don't feel comfortable.

She is extremely impulsive, acts without thinking, always takes things negatively and gets irritated on everything. Further, she has very poor mental abilities and cannot take care of multiple things. I don't like her personality, her facial expressions, the way she talks, she walks etc. She cannot even communicate properly. She stammers and her word pronunciation is not clear. Please guide and help me I cope with this situation. A: You are choosing to make life miserable not just for your wife, but also for yourself.

Most of our unhappiness is due to our own attitudes and mind-set. If we try to change our own perspective of looking at things, we can alter our emotions too. By continuously telling yourself that your wife is not good-looking or smart, you are not only making her feel unwanted and inferior, but also feeling inferior yourself.

Each individual has some positive traits and some shortcomings. Good looks are subjective judgments, and good looks definitely do not ensure a happy marriage.

Several dark-skinned persons have been renowned beauties. You may not be perfect yourself! Try to focus on her positive qualities, for example her smile, her cooking skills etc. By respecting her, praising her and treating her with love, you will yourself see the difference in her facial expressions and behaviour. She may even feel motivated to improve her looks and smartness. On the contrary if you continue berating and ridiculing her, she may lose her self-confidence and may not want to make any efforts at improving your relationship.

You have gone into this relationship willingly or because of your hesitance in calling it off at the last minute.

It is now your responsibility to honour this commitment and make efforts to improve it. Remember that you cannot change others, but you can always change your own behaviour and attitudes.

Try to make it a win-win situation, so that both of you emerge winners! All rights reserved. Close [X]. How do I get along well with my unattractive wife? Am I suffering from obsessive compulsive disorder?

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I no longer find my wife sexually attractive – have we become too alike?

After only five years of marriage, I am finding it hard to be sexually attracted to my wife. When we were dating, we were all over each other, but a lot has changed since we got married. Other than our sex life, w e have a very good relationship. That said, my views on the world and my personality are different because of her influence.

I am not physically attracted to my wife. Her physical appearance has always been an issue and it only gets worse. She has put on a considerable amount of weight.

This is a follow-up question to your response to my question, which was number I decided to follow much of your advice, may Allaah reward you. I feel that the best route would be to marry a second wife. I have tried everything to feel physically attracted to my wife and have cried to Allaah. Everyday, I am scared of disobeying Allaah and turning to porn and am I afraid of committing adultery, I seek refuge in Allaah from that.

How do I get along well with my unattractive wife?

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Apr 17, - This is very unattractive to me.I've tried to hint to her — tactfully; I'm not insensitive — that it bothers me, but she only gets offended. It seems like.

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Comments: 5
  1. Mosho

    It is possible to tell, this :) exception to the rules

  2. Mikam

    Your opinion is useful

  3. Sazil

    Here there can not be a mistake?

  4. Mezahn

    Paraphrase please

  5. Dikora

    You have hit the mark. It is excellent thought. I support you.

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